Party, Egyptian Style
At the appointed time, the car came for me, and I got into a vintage Chevy with a young man who spoke little English and was taking me to heaven knows where in an unfamiliar city in a foreign country where I couldn't even read a street sign to figure out where I was. It seems totally insane now, more than 20 years later, but at the time I trusted my intuition and everything turned out fine.
There were, indeed, dancing horses. There was also live music, dancing women, and herds of giggling children that followed me everywhere. No one spoke any English, other than the merchant who invited me, but everyone made me feel very welcome.
The festivities took place in two adjacent yards. In the larger yard there were musicians and the dancing horses. The chairs along the walls were filled with men. There were no women in this area, but children wandered around freely. It seemed as if this was where the men were doing their traditional man stuff, not the least of which included the smoking of some extremely fragrant nontobacco product from a large hookah by these guys. You could get a contact high within three yards of them!
In the other yard the women's activities were taking place. The soon-to-be-wedded couple seemed very happy to have a complete stranger attending their party and wanted their picture taken with me. They insisted that I sit in the nicest chair there, which had been decorated and was clearly intended for the bride-to-be. I didn't want to steal the limelight from her, but I was the guest and I did what they asked.
There was a ceremony taking place for the bride-to-be. Each woman of childbearing age would, one by one, stand up and dance for her. Yep, I took my turn, too! The women were delighted. The man dancing with me was the uncle of my merchant friend. Normally the men did not come and dance in the women's area, but this uncle was quite taken with me and followed me all around the party.
I took a lot of photos, and when I got back home I had copies made and mailed them to my merchant friend. Here is one of the engaged couple, my merchant friend and his wife, and a couple of his children.
Crazy or not, this was the most amazing night of my life.